On rare occasions parents have the opportunity to have their children out of the house and they get to drop the mantle of parental responsibility (kind of) and enjoy the company of other adults. This podcast details one of those few and far between times.
Tuesday, June 23, 2015
Monday, June 22, 2015
My Granny
This is my sweet Granny when she was 20 years old. I just love looking at pictures of her, old or young. She makes me happy. She and my grandfather had 11 children in 15.5 years. She was amazing! My mom and I moved in with my grandparents when I was about 9 months old.
My Granny gave the very best hugs in the entire world, you just knew you were safe when you were with her. She died in 1993 when I was 22 years old. I felt as if I lost my mother. I still feel like it was yesterday.
My greatest regret is that my children never got to know her. The best thing I can do is tell stories about her and keep her memory alive, make them feel as if they knew her.
Go ahead and paint it
I love to paint! Furniture and rooms in my house have been subject to my paintbrush. There is not one single room in my 3 story + 1/2 finished basement home that have not been repainted. Some rooms have been painted more than once in our 14 year history at this address.
Mostly my daughters rooms have received the repeat treatment, and my kitchen/tv room. Both my daughters rooms I painted a bright sunshiny yellow when they were little. Then my oldest daughter, Michaela wanted something a bit cooler. Brown and pink were very popular, so I added a couple of twists. A magnetic wall and 3 walls of the room I painted brown below and pink above while on the fourth wall I flipped the colors and made the demarkation line diagonal.
It has changed again since, the girls keep growing up and evolving their tastes. I have also painted coffee tables, straight back chairs, desks, dressers, table legs, shelves, really just about anything.
Something I learned along the way that was super helpful, buy Glad Cling Wrap and line the paint tray with it. Then if you have to take a break or in between coats you can take another layer of the Cling Wrap and cover the paint tray and the paint won't dry up. Also keep those old plastic grocery bags and you can wrap your paint roller or brush in them and they won't dry up either. Makes a big big difference. Also wash the item first but the biggest tip is to use primer. Every single time. It might take two coats of primer before color and don't rush it. Trust me it will be worth it.
A great place to buy gently used and sometimes even new furniture at decent prices is Bates Furniture 610 SW 6th St. I have gotten a dresser, a desk, a set of four mid-century modern tables, shelves and a couple of mirrors. The owner is very fair and friendly.
Mostly my daughters rooms have received the repeat treatment, and my kitchen/tv room. Both my daughters rooms I painted a bright sunshiny yellow when they were little. Then my oldest daughter, Michaela wanted something a bit cooler. Brown and pink were very popular, so I added a couple of twists. A magnetic wall and 3 walls of the room I painted brown below and pink above while on the fourth wall I flipped the colors and made the demarkation line diagonal.
It has changed again since, the girls keep growing up and evolving their tastes. I have also painted coffee tables, straight back chairs, desks, dressers, table legs, shelves, really just about anything.
Something I learned along the way that was super helpful, buy Glad Cling Wrap and line the paint tray with it. Then if you have to take a break or in between coats you can take another layer of the Cling Wrap and cover the paint tray and the paint won't dry up. Also keep those old plastic grocery bags and you can wrap your paint roller or brush in them and they won't dry up either. Makes a big big difference. Also wash the item first but the biggest tip is to use primer. Every single time. It might take two coats of primer before color and don't rush it. Trust me it will be worth it.
A great place to buy gently used and sometimes even new furniture at decent prices is Bates Furniture 610 SW 6th St. I have gotten a dresser, a desk, a set of four mid-century modern tables, shelves and a couple of mirrors. The owner is very fair and friendly.
Sunday, June 21, 2015
What is your best dream?
Do you have a favorite dream? I do, it has changed a little bit over the years, but it is ultimately the same.
photo from Family Guy
I win the BIG money lottery. Then I imagine all the amazing things I can do with the money. I usually set up my church and my kids school pretty nicely. After that I find my home. I used to want a big compound for friends to have homes in and I would have a mongo-huge house.
Now I think what would be ever so much nicer is lots and lots of land maybe in Argentina. I would build a main house, nothing too crazy. A central kitchen with four bedrooms each with a nice bathroom and big soaking tub. A large office for my craftiness and for Mike for his what-nots. We would have another decent sized building that I imagine to be an entertaining area, not unlike a reception hall. A big kitchen with bread warmers, plenty of sinks and counter space. It will have a large eating area that can be very versatile from eating to dancing, playing or watching movies on a large projector screen.
There will be a decent sized bunkhouse and showers, because you know friends and family will want to come visit and you will want them to feel comfortable, buuuutttt you don't want them to be so comfortable that they don't leave ;-)
My dream varies on a few ideas, but what stays constant is all the good things we could do for others. Never for the bragging rights but for the sheer joy of helping someone achieve what they are meant to be. I have shared my dream with my family and it has become a collective dinner table 'what would you do' discussion. I love hearing the amazingly generous things my daughters would do with the money. I am a very proud momma.
What do you dream about?
I win the BIG money lottery. Then I imagine all the amazing things I can do with the money. I usually set up my church and my kids school pretty nicely. After that I find my home. I used to want a big compound for friends to have homes in and I would have a mongo-huge house.
Now I think what would be ever so much nicer is lots and lots of land maybe in Argentina. I would build a main house, nothing too crazy. A central kitchen with four bedrooms each with a nice bathroom and big soaking tub. A large office for my craftiness and for Mike for his what-nots. We would have another decent sized building that I imagine to be an entertaining area, not unlike a reception hall. A big kitchen with bread warmers, plenty of sinks and counter space. It will have a large eating area that can be very versatile from eating to dancing, playing or watching movies on a large projector screen.
There will be a decent sized bunkhouse and showers, because you know friends and family will want to come visit and you will want them to feel comfortable, buuuutttt you don't want them to be so comfortable that they don't leave ;-)
My dream varies on a few ideas, but what stays constant is all the good things we could do for others. Never for the bragging rights but for the sheer joy of helping someone achieve what they are meant to be. I have shared my dream with my family and it has become a collective dinner table 'what would you do' discussion. I love hearing the amazingly generous things my daughters would do with the money. I am a very proud momma.
What do you dream about?
Saturday, June 20, 2015
Making a Fairy feel at home.
I have a tree in my front yard that is begging to be made into a home for a Fairy. My two younger daughters and I have been making plans this week on how to do just that. I love making memories with my girls. This will not only involve planning, and togetherness, but will allow them to use and develop their own style.
We have searched on Pinterest for some ideas of things we like and don't like. We have found items that we think are within our skill range. Clare has even drawn out a plan of maybe how it might look. In this slideshow are some of our inspirations as well as the tree we will use. We plan to get started the day after my MM Boot Camp final.
We have searched on Pinterest for some ideas of things we like and don't like. We have found items that we think are within our skill range. Clare has even drawn out a plan of maybe how it might look. In this slideshow are some of our inspirations as well as the tree we will use. We plan to get started the day after my MM Boot Camp final.
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Sunday, June 14, 2015
Father's Day is coming up, don't blow it off.
STOP! Do not buy another lame tie for Father's Day. Do not wait until Saturday or next Sunday either.
So what should you do for Dear ol' First National Bank of Dad?
- Recreate a photo from your childhood
- Buy him a gift card to Herman's Beef & Sausage House in North Topeka for a steak (Yummm)
- Offer to provide & make dinner
- Have a movie night with his favorite flick
- Buy a big glass jar at Hobby Lobby and then go to the Dollar Store and fill it with candy. Put a note towards the bottom that when notified you will fill it again for the res of the year.
- Buy a bunch of small, different flavor ice creams and sit around figuring out which is the best.
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| Our last Thanksgiving 2011, my sister Kate, our Dad, me |
Thursday, June 11, 2015
Do the kids need something to do in the summer?
Helen Hocker has some of the most amazing opportunities for kids in town. And to think the city almost shut it down, thankfully Topeka Civic Theatre bought it and still allow it to operate as almost its own unit.
All three of my girls have gone to Helen Hocker summer camps since they were itty bitty. It is an awesome value, $200 for three weeks of camp. You can't beat that with a stick. They get to run around make friends, play games, sing songs, learn lines and really just be kids. At the end of the three weeks they put on a usually original play and the shy kids get to do what they feel comfortable doing with only a tiny bit of a push and the over the top kids get to be over the top. Everyone wins.
My girls have become such theatre nerds that they now listen to Pandora Broadway stations, they audition throughout the year with the Topeka Youth Players of Helen Hocker through the school year. They have made lifelong friendships with kids from allover the city. It has been a lot of fun driving them around to the other middle schools to their camp finds in plays and then get invited to cast parties.
Another thing I love about Helen Hocker is that its not just plays by kids or just for kids. They do great shows. Here is a bit on a past show they did.
All three of my girls have gone to Helen Hocker summer camps since they were itty bitty. It is an awesome value, $200 for three weeks of camp. You can't beat that with a stick. They get to run around make friends, play games, sing songs, learn lines and really just be kids. At the end of the three weeks they put on a usually original play and the shy kids get to do what they feel comfortable doing with only a tiny bit of a push and the over the top kids get to be over the top. Everyone wins.
My girls have become such theatre nerds that they now listen to Pandora Broadway stations, they audition throughout the year with the Topeka Youth Players of Helen Hocker through the school year. They have made lifelong friendships with kids from allover the city. It has been a lot of fun driving them around to the other middle schools to their camp finds in plays and then get invited to cast parties.
Another thing I love about Helen Hocker is that its not just plays by kids or just for kids. They do great shows. Here is a bit on a past show they did.
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